"Typical" Behavior?
One of the most frustrating things a parent can hear during an IHSS assessment is that their child's behaviors are "typical for their age." While it's true that all children need some level of supervision and assistance, children with disabilities often require care that goes far beyond what is expected for their peers.
If the county determines that your child's behaviors are typical, it may reduce or deny IHSS services. However, that does not necessarily mean the decision is correct or that you have no options.
How IHSS Evaluates Children's Needs
When determining eligibility for IHSS services, the county generally compares a child with a disability to another child of the same age who does not have a disability.
The question is not whether your child needs help. Instead, the county looks at whether your child requires substantially more care, supervision, or assistance because of a disability or medical condition.
For example, many young children need reminders to brush their teeth or get dressed. However, a child with autism, developmental disabilities, or other medical conditions may require constant prompting, physical assistance, behavioral intervention, or one-on-one supervision to complete the same task.
Those additional care needs may be relevant when determining IHSS services.
When Behaviors May Be More Than Age-Appropriate
Certain behaviors may appear common at first glance but are actually much more severe or frequent because of a disability.
Examples include:
- Frequent wandering or elopement.
- Aggressive behaviors toward others.
- Self-injurious behaviors.
- Running into traffic or unsafe areas.
- Repeatedly placing dangerous objects in the mouth.
- Severe sensory-related meltdowns.
- Inability to recognize dangerous situations.
- Constant supervision needed to prevent injury.
The key issue is often the intensity, frequency, and level of supervision required—not simply whether another child occasionally displays similar behavior.
Why Documentation Matters
Parents often see their child's daily struggles in ways that cannot be captured during a brief home visit.
Strong documentation can help demonstrate that your child's care needs exceed what is typical for their age.
Helpful evidence may include:
- Medical records.
- Diagnostic evaluations.
- Occupational, physical, or speech therapy reports.
- Behavioral assessments.
- School records and Individualized Education Programs (IEPs).
- Statements from treating providers.
- Daily logs documenting behaviors and the supervision required.
Detailed records can help provide a more complete picture of your child's functional limitations.
What if You Disagree With the County's Assessment?
If you believe the county underestimated your child's needs or incorrectly described their behaviors as age-appropriate, you may have options.
Depending on your circumstances, you may be able to:
- Request a reassessment.
- Submit additional medical or educational documentation.
- Correct factual errors in the assessment.
- Appeal the county's decision within the applicable deadlines.
Many successful appeals involve providing additional evidence that better explains the child's daily care needs and the amount of supervision actually required.
Every Child Is Different
No two children are exactly alike, even if they share the same diagnosis. Autism, developmental disabilities, epilepsy, cerebral palsy, and many other conditions affect children differently.
For that reason, IHSS decisions should be based on your child's individual functional limitations rather than assumptions about a diagnosis or general statements about age-appropriate behavior.
Speak With an IHSS Attorney
If your county has denied or reduced services because it believes your child's behaviors are "typical for their age," don't assume the decision is final. If your child requires significantly more supervision, assistance, or personal care than another child of the same age, those needs should be carefully documented and evaluated.
An experienced IHSS attorney can review your case, explain your rights, and help determine whether additional evidence or an appeal may be appropriate.
Need help? In California, the In-Home Supportive Services (IHSS) program provides crucial financial help for families raising children with special needs. American Advocacy Group is on the front lines every day, making positive change happen for people diagnosed with autism, Down syndrome, and a range of diagnoses across the continuum. As a leading advocate for all people with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families, and the premier provider of the support and services people want and need, we understand the system and know how to take action regarding your best interests.
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